Did I ever tell you about the time we were rushing to make our flight and we forgot to bring diapers for our son? Sigh. We were at the point where we were just going to make a diaper out of a burp cloth but luckily, we found a small convenience store in the airport that sold small packs of diapers. We were fortunate that we had an airport big enough to have a convenience store- it possibly saved us from a very messy flight!

Traveling with small children can feel overwhelming, especially on an airplane where you have limited space and lots of unfamiliar faces around. But with the right preparation and mindset, you can make flying with kids a smooth, stress-free experience. Here are some tips:

Plan Ahead for a Smooth Start

The key to a stress-free flight starts before you even get to the airport.

✅ Choose the Right Flight Time: If possible, book flights that align with your child’s nap or bedtime to minimize meltdowns.

✅ Pick the Best Seats: Aisle seats make quick bathroom trips easier, while window seats keep little ones entertained.

✅ Check Airline Policies: Know the rules about stroller check-ins, car seats, and baggage allowances for kids.

Pack a “Survival Kit” for the Flight

Having the right items on hand can prevent tantrums and keep your child comfortable. Pack these essentials in your carry-on:

Snacks: Bring a variety of easy-to-eat, mess-free snacks like crackers, fruit pouches, or granola bars.

Headphones & Tablet: Download favorite movies, shows, and games before leaving home.

Activities: Coloring books, sticker sets, and small toys work wonders.

Comfort Items: A favorite stuffed animal, blanket, or pacifier can help soothe anxiety.

Extra Clothes: Accidents happen, so bring a spare outfit (for both you and your child!)

Keep Them Comfortable in the Air

A comfortable child is a happy traveler!

Dress in Layers: Airplane cabins can be unpredictable—light layers keep kids comfy.

Prevent Ear Pain: Sucking on a pacifier, sipping water, or chewing a snack can help with ear pressure during takeoff and landing.

Encourage Sleep: Dim the lights, use a neck pillow, and play calming music if you want them to nap.

Keep Little Ones Entertained

Boredom is a major trigger for mid-flight tantrums. Rotate activities to keep your child engaged.

✔️ Surprise Treat: Pack a new small toy or book and bring it out when restlessness kicks in.

✔️ Interactive Fun: Simple games like “I Spy” or sticker books can be lifesavers.

✔️ Stretch & Walk: If it’s a long flight, take short walks up and down the aisle when safe.

Stay Calm and Roll with It

Even with the best planning, kids will have moments of fussiness—it’s normal! The best thing you can do is stay calm and reassuring. Most people on the plane will understand, and if they don’t? Well, that’s their problem, not yours!

Pro Tip: If your child does get upset, don’t stress too much about what others think. Focus on comforting them, redirecting their attention, and remembering that this too shall pass! After all, we were all little kids once…others should give some grace.

Final Thoughts

Flying with small children doesn’t have to be a nightmare. With a little prep and the right mindset, you can make it a fun, smooth experience for the whole family. Just remember—snacks, entertainment, comfort, and patience are your best travel companions!